Networking, iNetworking, What Is The First Rule?

Networking on the Internet is the same asin multiple delivery formats.
networking inperson, or is it? Let's take aLast week I was at the Women's Business Center
conversational tour togetheron this topic.networkingbreakfast event. A woman stood up and
At an in-person networking event you wouldn't justapologized for nothaving her workshop flyer and
attendnot to network. Or would you? Normallybusiness cards. She forgotthem on the kitchen
everyone is therefor a purpose, even if they haven'tcounter. Not to be unkind but if thishappens, turn
totally defined thatpurpose, they have a vague ideayour car around and go back home either to getthe
why they are there.information or do something else more productive. I
Wouldn't that work the same for iNetworking? Yep.toohave on occasion during my 20 years in business
Yet...left thingsbehind, it only took me once to attend and
Weekly I receive emails and phone calls hownot have thenecessary material and its
someone wants toconnect with me in some way.embarrassment to learn to neverdo that again.
Yet...Making a pitch via email to someone that can be a
They have no idea on what. No suggestions, nopossiblegatekeeper, prospect, or strategic partner is
inklings, nopossible thoughts, nada. I'm always baffledimportant, ifyou don't have the time to put into a
when I receivethese. I don't have time to educatewell written andclearly presented email, turn the car
people because theysurely do need it. A few emailsaround and do it whenyou do have time. If you
even add their web site URLlink or suggest that Inever seem to find the time, thenlook at your
visit their web site to learn whatthey do and "figurepriorities, they sound a little off kilter tome.
it out for them."I'm not saying you need everything perfect nor have
For the folks reading this who have done this andall theanswers but I am saying that you need to
wonderedwhy their email doesn't get a response orknow what you wantand say it.iNetworking isn't any
gets a quickresponse of "sounds great," or "you candifferent than in-person networking inmany respects.
sell my new productor become my affiliate if you'dIn both, you are building a relationship,it's just not in
like" -- knock, knock,anyone home up there. Peopleperson, nor local, it's international inmany cases. You
have told me that when theyreceive get thesewouldn't say in the first three minutes atan in-person
responses back, it confuses them. Talkaboutnetworking event that you want them to be
confused, how about the person receiving them.youraffiliate, or would you?iNetworking is about
It's so much easier to either don't write or say whatbuilding relationships. I've developedsome wonderful
youreally mean. Simply, say why you are writing, thisnetworking buddies on the Internet over theyears
is whatyou do, this is what I do, and here are someand they watch my back and I theirs. It isn't allabout
possibilitiesfor us? You can even set this up in asales. Yet, each of us knows we need to scratch
signature file ineachother's back. And we do. But not until after the
Outlook and make it a quick send.initialtime together.
Everything is a mirror. If you want to iNetwork stateLet's summarize these points for clarity. iNetworking
whoyou are, what you offer, or give clues and ideasisthe same as in-person networking in that you need
ofpossibilities. Don't place the burden on the receiverto have aclear intention or purpose for making
tofigure it out.contact, even if thereason is to get to know what
This brings us to rule number one in iNetworking.each of you do. iNetworkingworks its magic best
Beprepared. Don't be the one that has a greatwhen it includes at least one phonecall after the initial
service orproduct but doesn't know who thecontact.
gatekeepers are or who thebuyers and strategicSince I write Internet articles, I set up many
partners are for your products orservices.relationshipswith publishers and editors. I don't
Gatekeepers are people that know your morehesitate to writethem. I compliment them on what
ofyour buyers, strategic partners are people that youthey are doing right andsometimes give them an idea
aregoing to do something joint and temporary withor two on what other sites aredoing to support their
to providebetter value for both your customers.writers. They are always gratefulbecause they don't
If you went to an in-person networking event youhave the time to do this. And therelationship grows
wouldn'tforget your business cards, or would you? Iffrom there. I prefer to follow it up witha phone call
you attendedan in-person networking event wouldor two. I learn about their challenges and Ishare the
you not bring the flyersfor your next workshop, notsame.
know the benefits of yourproduct or service, or notIt doesn't matter who calls whom, be ready with
know who is your ideal client.your spiel.
If you did, it would be a social event and not aWhat you do or provide and how you some possible
networkingevent.workingarrangements. There is a list of 100 by my
The same holds true with iNetworking. Have yourphone. Allowtime to iNetwork but look for people
businesscard set up for an easy email send, set awho are ready.
signature file inDon't make people guess. Spit it out clearly in your
Outlook or whatever email software you use, haveemail,edit and edit again if need be. Sometimes I go
yourworkshop flyer in pdf (Adobe) format, in an autothrough sixor seven edits to make sure mine are
responder,designed for a embedded text email andclear. Give others theopportunity to network with
HTML email (embeddedmeans not as an attachmentyou. Here's my challenge toyou. Who can you reach
but as the email itself). Inother words, have all theout to at this exact moment andbegin iNetworking?
same materials that you wouldcreate for an in-personThey are waiting to hear from you.
networking event available fordeliver via the Internet(C) Copyright, Catherine Franz. All rights reserved.